The realtionship games-dr. Marvin ellis

[PaAswudRa]

Before I begin, let me clear a few things up: I am not a scientist, doctor or medical professional. I just pay attention to a lot that is going on around me and I have picked up a few morsels of wisdom through my years on this planet. I have, however, been a C.N.A., a radiology tech assistant, I am married to a Registered Nurse, I am a father and I love the television show "Scrubs". So there, that is my medical qualification. The subject I want to discuss today is in reference to the aforementioned information, Science & Relationships.

Why Science...

Why Relationships...

Humans perform scientific experiments on a daily basis and don't even realize it when it comes to relationships! We dabble in quantum theorems, advanced theory, physics, chemistry, biology and even astral physics all within the course of our lives (and some of us may have never even graduated from high school!)

How is this?

Simple...

Love is a force, a universal force that has existed before any of us and will exist way after all of us are gone. This is quantum reality. We use this force on many different levels. We think we can own this force. We think we can use this force against each other. We think we can fall into this force. All misconceptions as we break natural law after law in the pursuit of each other. Sex is chemistry. The chemical attraction between two Humans spans from the most spiritual of sparks to the most animal of reactions. Have you ever been on a train or a bus or in a public place and saw someone that you were attracted to? Someone whose very essence clouded your reasoning temporarily and had you thinking on a completely different wavelength? Have you ever walked past someone and got the strong urge to want to touch that person or kiss that person or even sexually aggress that person? All of this is chemistry.

Pay attention in the back of the class!

Relationships are sometimes seen in the most basic of ways. Man and woman, boy and girl, husband and wife, etc. but how many times do we look at the higher scientific elements that effect relationships? How often do we look at the chemical and quantum properties of relationships to help get us through hard spots in our own situations?

What is anger?

What is laughter?

What is happiness?

What is jealousy?

What is surprise?

What is joy?

What is devotion?
What is care?

What is nurturing?

All of these and many more are traits that are a part of the relationship spectrum. All of these and many more are mathematic and scientific variables that help to determine the strength or weakness of our relationships. These factors help to gauge (to the clear seeing Human) how successful a relationship can truly be and a relationship that is doomed from the start.

So why are many relationships today so unsuccessful?

One of the reasons is that we aren't going into relationships as the scientists that we are born to be. Not some stuffy, bespectacled, bearded man in a lab coat quoting Einstein's theories but a scientist of nature who can see the mathematics of the universe around us and who knows how to apply simple equations to our lives to make things go better for ourselves and for our loved ones.

What would it take to get to this point again?

Silence...

Retrospect...

Inner vision...

Focus...

Meditation...

Care...

We can be all that the universe has given us the potential to be. Our relationships can be as wholesome as we allow them to be. Science is Latin for "To Know" so what will we begin TO KNOW? Math is all around us and in the simplest equation - Man + Woman = Two which with the right factors = ONE